When you imagine a book club, you generally think of a group of women, maybe late 20’s to late 50’s, sitting around, discussing a thriller or romance novel. Perhaps it’s a high-brow book club and they like to read award-winning novels. Maybe these ladies are having snacks in a coffee shop or in someone’s living room.
Apparently some men feel left out of this great book club culture. In an article published today in the New York Times entitled “Men Have Book Clubs, Too” Jennifer Miller plunges into the world of Men Only book clubs, where strict masculine standards are kept, and low-key misogyny rules. The main book club she focuses on is Man Book Club, located in California, this club of middle-aged men has three rules when selecting its next book:
“1. No books by women about women (our cardinal rule)
2. Under 500 pages
3. Author has won/been nominated for a major literary award (or any award)”
The man hosting that meeting has to cook food related to the topic of that evening’s selection, and then later a review of the evening and of the book is posted onto their blog. Ignoring the fact that it’s typically seen as a feminine duty to cook and host events in one’s home, the men put up nice photos of them enjoying each other’s company. It would be sweet if there wasn’t the bizarre undercurrent of misogyny.
Having a men-only book club would be perhaps more acceptable if they still read books by women about women, as most women dominated book clubs still read books by men. To ignore men would be, unfortunately, to ignore most prize-winning literature. Not allowing books by women isn’t a stand of solidarity for the obviously persecuted middle-aged white American male, but sheer misogyny and an example of acting out when there is one environment where men don’t feel entirely welcome or don’t feel like they are in a place of power.
There’s also the fact that their reading list still includes books by women and books about women. Included in their list of books read includes The Book Thief by Markus Zusak, which, by the way, is about a girl. They have also read Just Kids by Patti Smith, the the weak justification that the book does focus on Robert Mapplethorpe. They also read Breakfast at Tiffany’s which, if I’m not mistaken, does focus quite a bit on Holly Golightly.
There is no problem with men reading literature by men. There’s no issue with men gathering to read. I just take issue with men refusing to read literature by women. This is a step back to a time when women had to publish simply using their initials so that men would buy their books. Refusing to read books that focus on female characters is to refuse to read books that speak of a human experience that is different from one’s own. And isn’t that the point of reading in the first place?